Abrams Media Group - In the Moment

Free flow thoughts from Sara Abrams, queen of networking, princess of network marketing. A classic late bloomer struggling to stay self employed and make a contribution to the world through words of love and encouragement, warm and fuzzy photography and pet stories.

Saturday, August 25, 2007

Commerce Connections was a Big Success





I had my first networking event which I coined Commerce Connections on Thursday. I was a little nervous about it. I had spent the morning dealing with the tom cat and I just didn't know if people were going to show up or not. Charlotte is very similar to Los Angeles. People say they're going to attend an event because it's easier to be nice and say yes. I had wanted to be at Phil and Tony's early to set up but I was running a little behind. Thankfully I got there in time to set up and begin to greet people. We had a terrific showing and it was fantastic to see people I knew networking with each other. I had 3 tables as you came in and people were able to put their business cards on the table or any kind of hand out they had. That way, even if you didn't get a chance to meet everyone, you could leave with business cards. I also had my media portfolio on the table and I was promoting my marketing company, Abrams Media Group, Inc. and also the identity theft protection and Pre-Paid Legal.

All in all, a very good night! (FYI, I did two posts tonight, so don't forget to take a look at the one before this which relays the stalking and capturing of the wild tom cat, Tom.)

To all my readers (Mom, Emily and Donald), please spread the message of love and peace in your every day conduct. I will try and do the same.

Sara Abrams
visit: www.CatsAndDogsofCharlotte.com

Caught ya!








One week and a day later - caught him! My patience was wearing thin and my mood was getting surly, but I finally got the old tom into the carrying case, snipped, back home and back out to the wilds!

Where did we leave off? Oh yeah, I think it was me tearing out my hair and conceding to Tom's wily ways and finally feeding him. It's been in the three digits weather-wise lately and it was absolutely no fun to be sitting outside trying to convince the tom to get in the cage. It had to be planned well because I had to either catch him in the evening and take him to the vet in the morning, or catch him early in the morning and get him to the vet. My schedule is somewhat flexible but if I had to be in Columbus, NC, 2 hours away from my home, there was no way I could make it to the vet in the morning. Every day and evening was a new challenge, and Mr. Tom lying on his back daring me to rub his belly, laughing at me, didn't help matters much.

I was in constant contact with Mari, the wonderful woman who got me the cage and carrying case, and on Wednesday night she volunteered to come over. I think she was curious to check out this critter that was giving me a run for my money. So on Wednesday night she shows up with a can of smelly Mackerel and we proceed to stalk Mr. Tom. Now he's got two crazy ladies tempting him with yummy food, and trying to get him in a cage and he's just having a ball. On top of that a thunderstorm starts to roll in. I finally concoct the plan to lure Tommy into my back office and maybe somehow get him into the carrying case at some point. The reason I decided on that was that the office is an add on to the house and the back door opens to the deck and I can keep my cats in the main area of the house by closing the connecting door.

Well Tom is pretty smart, as we've established by now, and he knows that the good cat food is kept in the back office. A few times in the past I've turned around and seen his little head poked in the doorway while he snarfs down food from my cat's dish. But Mari knew he wasn't going to come in with her waiting for him so she headed back home. I sat down at the computer and pretended that my life was back to normal, and in truth I had a deadline situation, and when I finally looked up, Tom had ventured inside. I closed the door to the outside and now it was just me, him and a carrying case.

More easily said than done. Around midnight I gave up and went to bed. Tom was hidden behind my desk and I was just praying he would use the kitty litter. I kept the door to the carrying case opened and hoped that maybe in the morning I'd find him curled up asleep inside it. The next morning I came downstairs and put on some soft leather gloves that Mari had left me. Tom must have been really hungry by now because all of a sudden he's rubbing against my hands and letting me pet him! Now this freaked me out because in the past he's sliced me with his nails, but something had changed dramatically in his attitude. I inched closer to the case and he followed me and I pushed him inside, but he wiggled out! At this point I'm thinking, it's been a week and a day dude, I'm really, really tired of this! I start petting him again, get him closer to the case, push him in and get that door shut!!!!! And it's all over. It's finally over.

The last photo I have is Tom in the car, on his way to the vet. He was so good in the car. He barely meowed. Maybe he just knew it was time. When I picked him up later that day from Monroe Road Animal Hospital they said he passed with flying colors. They also snipped his ear to mark him for animal control or other rescuers so they'll know he's been neutered. I had to rush him home and then get ready for my first networking event called Commerce Connections. I left him in the office again but now he was kind of agitated. He really wanted to be outside. They told me to leave him in over night but he was so anxious to be outside that I let him out late that night.

Hallelujah!

To all my readers (Mom, Emily and Donald), please spread the message of love and peace in your every day conduct. I will try and do the same.

Sara Abrams
visit: www.CatsAndDogsofCharlotte.com

Sunday, August 19, 2007

He May Be Scraggly, But He Sure Outsmarted Me







The drama! The suspense! I tried and tired to get Tom in the cage on Wednesday night, Thursday morning, and Thursday afternoon, and he finally broke me. I just gave him his tuna and walked away defeated and with a broken spirit. The vet clinic, Monroe Animal Hospital, said to try again Sunday night. Well, it's now Sunday and he's just taunting me! He's very hungry but he won't get in the cage. I did have him for a split second Wednesday night but he wouldn't step on the lever that spring the trap door closed. When I came behind him to shut the door, he fled. And then the taunting began...

He comes close to me but I'm scared to touch him. He slashed me this morning just out of orneriness. What an ordeal this is turning out to be! I rigged a string to the lever that pulls the door down so if I can get him in the trap again, I can seal him in. He did go back inside again today but he wasn't in deep enough and I didn't want the trap door to hurt him or catch his tail.

I'm getting tired of this! My respect goes out to everyone in animal control that has to put up with this animal insolence and all the animal rescue people that go through this every day. I’m just tuckered out.

Well, to lighten the mood, I added a photo of Kelley, of Kelley Berries. We ran into each other at Sam's Club and I made her pose in front of her cute little VW Beetle. If anyone needs chocolate covered strawberries, she's the one to call! www.kelleysberries.com

Girls Night Out on Thursday was kind of a bust. I had tons of RSVP's and only six of us were there. It was still fun but I was a little let down that others didn't show up or cancel. Their loss, right?

Big news, Trader Joes is open in Charlotte! My roommate and my friend Terry went down today to check it out and it was so jam packed that we pretty much just turned around and came home. It is an awesome store, and there would be no reason for me to ever leave Charlotte now.

Also, the weather has been dreadful. We haven't had rain in a long time and the creeks are very low, and the lawns are all dried up. It's been hot but it hasn't been too humid. The mosquitoes have not been a problem at all this year, but it's weird. It leaves you kind of nervous because something's not right with the universe.

To all my readers (Mom, Emily and Donald), please spread the message of love and peace in your every day conduct. I will try and do the same.

Sara Abrams
visit: www.CatsAndDogsofCharlotte.com

Friday, August 10, 2007

Oh Scraggly Tom, Your Days Are Numbered!




I've been training the Tomcat, Tom, to eat out of a carrying case, in anticipation of the trap to be delivered any day now. Once that gets here and we have a vet date, oh yes, his days are numbered. His hormones will be changed and he'll be sweet, loving and cuddly, just like my little eunuch boys. No more terrorizing my little guys, no more scratching me viciously just because I'm trying to feed him. Yes, he'll be my sweet angel. Hmmmm, probably not. He'll probably abandon me just like Dude did. Now didn't I say I wasn't going to mention him again? I just had to. My dad is mad at me for wasting any time on him. Oh well. It's not like there's a ton of options in Charlotte, NC for us over, well, I won't mention over which decade, even though I'm still a hot tamale, or a hot matzo ball at least. Surely someone will recognize that fact some day. Surely.

In the meantime, life goes on. People put religious symbols on their gas tanks (see photo of psychedelic fish on car). What is the symbolism of that? Anyone have an answer? Mom, Emily, Donald? Oh yes. We have a new reader! Emily and Mom - say hi to Donald. Emily of course knows Donald. He is one of Paul's, the wedding boy from last blog, good friends and fraternity brother. Donald took good care of me at the wedding and made up for Dude not showing up and not responding to my phone calls. I knew I was going to have a good time no matter what, but Donald made sure to dance with me and keep my spirits up. Three glasses of wine, my absolute limit, didn't hurt either.

I can't sign off without mentioning that my car temperature gauge read 111 degrees today! 111!!! I guess it wasn't really that hot, but it was up in the 100's. And we ended up doing a Realtor's luncheon in a house that was newly constructed and didn't have the air conditioning signed off on yet, so there was NO air. I must say the house was gorgeous, even in that swelter.

To all my readers (Mom, Emily and Donald), please spread the message of love and peace in your every day conduct. I will try and do the same.

Sara Abrams
visit: www.CatsAndDogsofCharlotte.com

Saturday, August 04, 2007

Wedding, Sun, Sea, Marshes




I'm just back from Charleston, SC from Kelly & Paul's wedding. Charleston is only about 3 hours east of Charlotte. It is a very historic port city and has been beautifully preserved. It's one of those cities where you do a lot of walking, one of the reasons being that there isn't much parking. When I arrived Friday morning it was raining like mad. I was totally unprepared for cool weather. I figured it would be hot and humid, but it turned out to be around 75 degrees. I had arranged a meeting with a land design company that morning, since I figured whenever I travel, I should try and do some business also. It turned out to be a great meeting so it was a good start to a beautiful 24 hours. I hung out with the girls' wedding party as they prepared for the ceremony. I was so honored to have been included in this beautiful wedding.

The ceremony was held at an old church and then the reception was back at the hotel where a lot of us were staying. I took a little break from the revelry at one point in the evening and strolled around the block, just to take in the scenery and do some people watching. It felt so good to be out of Charlotte and my normal surroundings. It was nice to have a break.

The next day I met a woman from Pre-Paid who I know from telephone conference calls. She lives in Charleston, and I thought it would be nice to meet face to face and do some brainstorming. We went to a restaurant on Isle of Palms so that I could see a different part of Charleston. We were on the marsh area overlooking waterways, that I assume lead to the ocean. I suddenly looked up and saw a boat sailing down the waterway with a dog standing on the front of the boat, pointing the way.

All in all, a nice start to the weekend.

To all my readers (Mom and Emily), please spread the message of love and peace in your every day conduct. I will try and do the same.

Sara Abrams
visit: www.CatsAndDogsofCharlotte.com